5 Ways Cheating Men Hide Their Summer Flings

In my previous post, I described the 3 types of men who typically have summer affairs, and explained why these men will only cheat on their wives or girlfriends during the summer months. I also talked about how your man’s summer fling could jeopardize your relationship, or undermine your marriage and lead to separation or divorce. If you missed this post, click here so you can read it now.

In this post, I’ll show you some of the sneaky things cheating husbands and boyfriends do to avoid raising your suspicion and keep from getting caught.

Most cheating men use travel of some kind to hide their summer flings. Below are 5 common tactics these summer cheaters use to keep you in the dark about what’s going on.

Sending the Wife and Kids Away

Some cheating husbands routinely send their wife and kids away for a week or two, or for the entire summer -- to the shore, the lake, the mountains, a vacation home, or to visit relatives in another state. Once you and the kids are out of the way, the summer cheater will play.

The Dream Vacation

If he treats you to a Caribbean cruise with your girlfriends, or a week at a world- class spa or fancy resort he knows you can’t resist, he can conveniently remove you from the scene so you can’t interfere with his summer fun.

Separate Vacations

Many wives fall for the separate vacation scheme. It’s a common ploy seasonal cheaters use to lay the groundwork for having a summer fling. If the two of you go your separate ways, he can have his summer affair and you’ll never know.

Counterfeit Conventions and Bogus Business Trips

If his job requires him to travel a lot, the summer cheater can easily invent a trip that doesn’t exist. Business travel is the perfect camouflage for a summer affair. He may even extend a legitimate business trip by tacking on a few extra days so he can have a summer a fling before returning home.

Fictitious Fishing Trips and Outdoor Adventures

Cheating husbands or boyfriends frequently use phony fishing trips or similar activities to hide their summer affairs. They know that if they tell you they’re going on some rigorous outdoor adventure with their male friends, or participating in some macho “guys-only” extreme sport, you won’t ask to tag along. It’s the perfect cover for a weekend trip or a week-long vacation with his mistress.

How to Avoid Being a Victim of Summer Infidelity

If your husband or boyfriend travels, sends you and the kids to the Hamptons or the Jersey Shore for the summer, or treats you to a dream vacation, it doesn’t necessarily mean he’s is setting the stage for a summer fling. But if he’s one of the 3 types of men who typically have summer affairs, it could mean he’s up to no good, since these tactics are commonly used by cheating men to hide their summer affairs.

To avoid being a victim of summer infidelity, you need to put a few checks and balances in place, and familiarize yourself with the signs of a summer fling. Sign up for the FREE Summer Infidelity Newsletter so you can stay on top of the situation. To get the FREE newsletter, e-mail SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with the word “newsletter-b” in the subject line. All subscribers will get a FREE tip sheet on 10 Things You Can Do to Prevent Summer Infidelity.

What's in the FREE Summer Infidelity Newsletter

The Summer Infidelity Newsletter - 5 brief, informative, easy-to-read issues - will give you the inside scoop on summer flings and summertime extramarital affairs. It will tell you everything you need to know to protect your relationship or marriage from summer infidelity. I’ll e-mail it to you at regular intervals during the months of June, July, and August. The Summer Infidelity Newsletter will cover the following information:

● how to spot the telltale signs of summer infidelity
● tactics cheating men use to hide their summer affairs
● reasons why you should never ignore a summer fling
● How a summer fling could lead to a divorce
● why most men get away with their summer affairs
● little things you can do to safeguard your relationship from summer infidelity
● checks and balances you can put in place to make sure he’s not having a summer affair
● the 3 types of men who have summer affairs
● what you should never do if you find out he’s having a summer affair
● how separate vacations can lead to summer affairs
● how to short-circuit your man’s summer affair
● how to nip his summer fling in the bud before it becomes a long-term affair
● how to avoid being a victim of summer infidelity
● and more

To subscribe to the FREE Summer Infidelity Newsletter, e-mail SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with the word “newsletter-b” in the subject line.

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The 3 Types of Men Who Typically Have Summer Affairs

In the course of my ongoing infidelity research, I found that there are 3 types of men who tend to have summer affairs.

The recreational cheater - this man treats infidelity like a summer sport.

The seasonal cheater - this man will indulge in a summer fling if his wife or girlfriend is away on vacation.

The opportunistic cheater - this man only cheats when an opportunity presents itself for him to cheat without getting caught.

Why Men Cheat More During the Summer Months

All three types of cheating men, (and the types may overlap) consider summer the ideal time to have a fling or short-term extramarital affair. The interesting thing about these summer cheats is that under normal circumstances they would never even consider cheating on their wives of girlfriends at other times of the year. But vacations, weekend trips and all the outdoor activities that take place during the summer months make it easy for cheating men to hide their summer affairs. Most summer cheaters never get caught.

2 Reasons You Should Never Ignore a Summer Fling

You may be tempted to just ignore his summer fling. But that could be a big mistake. Here’s why:

● If he gets away with his summer fling, he’ll feel confident enough to have another one next year, and the year after, and summer flings will become a way of life for him. Do you want to go through the same thing every year?

● Not every summer fling dies a natural death when summer ends. Some summer flings go on to become long-term affairs. It could mean the end of your relationship. If you’re married, it could mean a separation or divorce. Are you willing to take that chance?

What to Do About Summer Infidelity

If you don’t want to become a victim of summer infidelity, learn how to spot the signs of a summer fling. Put a few simple checks and balances in place to make sure he won’t have an opportunity to get involved in a summer affair. Familiarize yourself with some of the tactics cheating men use to hide their summer affairs. I’ll post some of this information in this blog throughout the summer. So check back often.

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How Cheating Men Hide Their Summer Affairs

In my next post, I’ll talk about a couple of the things cheating husbands do to hide their summer affairs. Check back in a couple of days.

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Summer Infidelity Alert

Summer is cheating season. Infidelity and extramarital affairs usually flourish this time of the year. According to statistics, 50% to 70% of husbands cheat on their wives. A good percentage of these affairs take place during the summer months. Yet most of these summer affairs go undetected. That’s why I conduct a Summer Infidelity Awareness Campaign each year

● to educate women about the existence and dangers of summer infidelity.
● help women avoid becoming victims of summer infidelity
● tell women how to spot the signs of a summer affair

Never Underestimate the Danger of a Summer Fling

A husband or boyfriend who gets away with a summer fling will feel more confident about doing it again next year. And eventually his summer affairs will take their toll on your marriage or relationship. Sadly, many women don’t find out about their husband’s or boyfriend’s summer affair until it’s too late.

FREE Summer Infidelity Newsletter

As part of the 2008 Summer Infidelity Awareness Campaign, I’ll be sending out a special Summer Infidelity Newsletter to keep all my readers informed about summer flings, summer infidelity and summertime extramarital affairs.

To sign up for the Summer Infidelity Newsletter, e-mail SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with the word “newsletter” in the subject line.

In the Summer Infidelity Newsletter, as well as on this blog I’ll be covering some of the following information:

● why men are more likely than women to have summer affairs
● the 3 types of men who have summer affairs
● how to avoid being victim of summer infidelity
● how separate vacations can lead to summer affairs
● why most men get away with their summer affairs
● tactics cheating men use to hide their summer affairs
● how to spot the telltale signs of summer infidelity
● checks and balances you can put in place to make sure he’s not having a summer affair
● little things you can do to can safeguard your marriage or relationship against summer infidelity
● how to short-circuit your man’s summer affair
● what you should never do if you find out he’s having a summer affair
● how to nip his summer fling in the bud before it becomes a permanent thing
● and more

The Summer Infidelity Newsletter will be short, informative and easy to read. It will go out at regular intervals during the months of June, July, and August, and will give you the inside scoop on summer affairs, summer flings, and summer infidelity.

To subscribe to the FREE Summer Infidelity Newsletter, e-mail SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with the word “newsletter” in the subject line.

Educate yourself about summer infidelity.

Sign up today so you don’t miss a single issue. E-mail SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with the word “newsletter” in the subject line.

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All subscribers to the Summer Infidelity Newsletter will receive a FREE tip sheet entitled 10 Things You Can Do to Prevent Summer Infidelity.

Sign up for the Summer Infidelity Newsletter today and bookmark this blog so you can check back periodically throughout the summer for additional inside information about summer infidelity.

In my next post I’ll talk about the 3 types of men who typically have summer affairs. Are you married to, or dating one of these summer cheats?

Check back in a few days to find out.